Derasha 1 on Lech Lecha 12:11

TT #1 · Parashas Lech Lecha · First Aliyah · Passuk 12:11

Complete Passuk

וַיְהִ֕י כַּאֲשֶׁ֥ר הִקְרִ֖יב לָב֣וֹא מִצְרָ֑יְמָה וַיֹּ֙אמֶר֙ אֶל־שָׂרַ֣י אִשְׁתּ֔וֹ הִנֵּה־נָ֣א יָדַ֔עְתִּי כִּ֛י אִשָּׁ֥ה יְפַת־מַרְאֶ֖ה אָֽתְּ׃

When he was about to enter Egypt he said to Sarai his wife: See now, I know that you are a woman of beautiful appearance.

Chabad / Judaica Press

Source Citation

TT points to Bava Batra 16a: Avraham did not even gaze upon his own wife [in that way] until this moment.

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Core Text

Core Text מִכָּאן דְּאַבְרָהָם אֲפִלּוּ בְּדִידֵיהּ לֹא אִסְתַּכֵּל, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר הִנֵּה נָא יָדַעְתִּי כִּי אִשָּׁה יְפַת מַרְאֶה אָתְּ — מִכְּלָל דְּמֵעִיקָּרָא לֹא הֲוָה יָדַע לָהּ.
English of Core Text: From here [we learn] that Avraham did not even gaze upon his own [wife], as it is said “See now, I know that you are a woman of beautiful appearance” — which implies that originally he did not know this of her.
On the daf / in context: The derasha reads “now I know” as evidence of prior restraint. The Gemara uses it in a discussion of the yetzer and the patriarchs’ self-control.

Type of Learning

Custom

What Is Learned

Chazal portray Avraham as exercising extreme modesty even toward his own wife until circumstance forced the recognition.